Crying, Craving and the Only Thing that Satisfies

It was after midnight, and she had been crying for almost an hour.

My husband squeezed my hand as he sensed my frustration was growing. I squeezed back. It was a Sunday night, and after a long day of preaching and shepherding, I knew he was exhausted, too.

I had tried everything: picking her up, putting her back down, changing her diaper, rubbing her back, giving her medicine, repeating again and again to no avail until I finally gave up and got back in the bed. If she were going to cry no matter what I did, I was at least going to rest my tired body for a few minutes.

I wracked my brain…. She had been sleeping through the night for months now. What could be the problem? 

I mentally went through the checklist again, the one that all mommas have filed away when their child is wailing and they have no idea why.

She was sleeping in a pack and play in our room because we had family visiting for the weekend. Maybe it was just unfamiliar to her, but it had not bothered her the night before….

Perhaps she was teething again. She had finally gotten a new tooth that had been waking her up at night. I had given her a dose of Tylenol just in case 30 minutes ago though, and it should have kicked in by now. No, that wasn’t it…. 

Maybe she was overtired. She had missed a nap the last two days. Good sleep begets good sleep, they say…  But who knows at this point, I thought. 

Dear Lord, please let her go to sleep. 

I rolled over and put the pillow over my head. “Well, at least I know she can’t be hungry,” I thought.

I sat straight up in bed and bemoaned to myself, “OH, NO.  I couldn’t have.” 

But I HAD.

I turned to my husband, not even bothering to whisper (because clearly what was the point?), “I know why she’s crying. She’s hungry.”

“Hungry? Why would she be hungry?” he asked.

With a sigh of relief that I knew what was wrong and regret that it was my own doing, I answered, “Because I forgot to feed her before I put her to bed.”

In the hustle and bustle of getting dinner ready after church that evening, I had forgotten to feed her. It had not even crossed my mind. And her sweet, easy-going personality went right along with it. She went to bed like all was well only to be awakened when her poor tummy started rumbling, and she could not sleep any longer.

I rolled out of bed to feed her. Before long she and I were snuggled together. She was content and satisfied. Exhausted from her long bout of tears, her sweet eyes looked up at me with the most precious of thanks after her cries had finally been answered.

As I sat there savoring my little one, I saw my Bible sitting on the nightstand. I remembered the verse from scripture, “Like newborn babes, CRAVE the pure milk of the word.” 

 I would love to say that verse described my own heart towards the Word that night, but the truth is that it had been weeks since I had picked it up and read it on my own. Midnight calls from sick children, a teething baby needing constant comfort, and a cluttered home with a too-busy schedule had made choosing another hour of sleep or my to-do list over time in the Word seem like the easy and excusable choice.

The neglect had taken its toll on me, but I had explained my uneasy soul away with other things. Surely I was just tired or I was catching what the kids had or it was this new season of life or the fact that I felt so disorganized. Maybe all I needed was to get a good nap, take another vitamin C, and finally get my house organized. Then my soul would be quieted. 

None of it worked. But being hungry for God’s word never crossed my mind.

Yet it is the only thing that would satisfy... 

I had been ok at the beginning, or so I thought, but slowly my heart had fallen into weakness and depression. As it did, the foolishness of sin was becoming more and more commonplace in my life. But it wasn’t because I was physically tired, sick, or unsettled, it was because I was hungry.
 
Mine was not simply a heart that was not getting what it was craving. No, I was starving.   

I could sense my restless soul crying out for the one thing I so desperately needed: the Word of God described so vividly in Psalm 19.

I was the weak heart that needed to be revived. 

I was the despondent heart that needed to rejoice. 

I was the foolish heart that needed to be made wise.

And nothing else would do. I had tried all of those other things not realizing that true rest for my soul would not come from more sleep, a healthy body, or a well-planned life and home. True rest can only be found in the Lord and abiding in His Word. 

You have made us for yourself, O Lord, and our hearts are restless until they rest in you.~ St. Augustine of Hippo


Perhaps it has been a long time since you have craved the Word of God with the same intensity of my daughter crying out in the midnight. May the Lord so work in your heart that you remember when you once did and you would sing the psalmists.

Behold, I long for Your precepts; Revive me through Your righteousness. Psalm 119:40

I opened my mouth wide and panted, For I longed for Your commandments. Psalm 119:131

 I rejoice in your word like one who discovers a great treasure. Psalm 119:162

Or perhaps your our own starving heart has been described here, and it has been much too long since you have picked up the Word. You have tried to explain your restless soul by the circumstances of life, but you know what your real need is. 

I implore you not to try to roll over and drown out the cries of your heart this day because feasting on the Word of God is the only thing that will satisfy you. 

No matter where you find yourself, I invite you to join me in meditating today on the glories of His Word seen in Psalm 19.

"The precepts of the Lord are right, rejoicing the heart,
The law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul;
The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
The commandment of the Lord is pure, enlightening the eyes.
The fear of the Lord is clean, enduring forever.
The judgments of the Lord are true, they are righteous altogether.
They are more desirable that gold, yes than much fine gold, Sweeter also than honey and the drippings of honeycomb.
Moreover, by them Your servant is warned; In keeping them there is great reward."

I am praying for you, dear friend, as we both follow hard after God and seek him through his Word. May we feast on His Word for the rest and the reward we will find there is the greatest of treasures.

If you don't know where to start, the book of John is an amazing book, even if you have read it before. I challenge you, as I once was, to read the whole book through 5 times. It took me over 3 months, but there were new treasures ready to be mined each time. Why not start there?

If your hungry soul has been encouraged, I would love to hear from you and pray for you as you delve back into God's Word. Just leave a comment below. I would be honored to be a part of what the Lord is doing in your life!

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Rain, Reese's and Reminding

The rain poured with no sign of letting up. 

As I glanced down at the grocery bags in my hand, I was thankful that my husband had encouraged me to do my errands solo. People scurried through the parking lot while dodging the puddles, and I decided to make a dash for it.

I climbed in our van only slightly soaked and immediately reached for the bag, searching for one thing- Reese’s peanut butter cup. 

Perhaps my craving was prompted by the thought of my husband's impending mission trip to Africa for 2 weeks while I stayed home alone with our four kids (6 and under). I had invested in quite a stash for those moments when I might need to hide in the closet in my bedroom.

 Or perhaps it was that bright orange commercial. You know the one: peanut butter and chocolate- an unforgettable combination. Only, by the number of times I had seen the same commercial, I was not convinced that they believed it was REALLY unforgettable since they were determined to keep reminding me of it over and over again.

With the rain steadily tapping on the window, I looked at the clock.  I still had some time before naps would be over, and I needed to be home to start dinner. I had hoped for a comfy chair in the local coffee shop, but this would have to do and at least it was quiet. Getting settled comfortably in my seat with my unforgettable chocolatey peanut butter treat, I found the place where I left off in the book I was reading:

“Advertisers repeat their message… They know it will take more than one exposure for their message to be absorbed. If it didn’t need repetition, they would create quick and inexpensive ads that aired only once…. The world gets it! Shaping ideas requires long term interaction with long-range goals and 100 percent saturation.

It’s the same message for every generation- but slickly tailored to the hot buttons of each. The underlying message is ME! I deserve… I want… I will be happy if… I can’t live without… These messengers tell us and our children how to think about life, themselves, other people, and God.”

I reread it and thought about how the world does not get tired of bombarding me or my children with their message about everything- from how to think and live to the goodness of chocolate. I had to laugh a little at that truth as I finished off the last of my peanut butter cup. 

But then with sadness and regret, I recounted the tired, frustrated words that came from my lips earlier that day. The ones that had prompted my husband to encourage me to leave the kids home and take some time to myself.

 “How many times have I told you…”

 “I am not going to tell you again….”

“You should know this by now. I have told you a THOUSAND times…”

How I had needed to read those words. Because the world… it doesn’t get tired. 

Patiently, quietly, confidently, it repeats its message with one purpose: long term interaction with long-range goals and 100 percent saturation.

But what about me? I get tired of repeating myself. I think once should be enough for my children to understand that they should put others first, that they should love their brother or sister as they love themselves, that they should put. their. shoes. where. they. BELONG.

That they should love the Lord their God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength and do all things for his glory.

But I really should know better than that. The Apostle Paul did. He knew that I needed to be reminded over and over of the truth of the gospel, of what honors the Lord.

“Finally, my brethren, rejoice in the Lord. To write the same things again is no trouble to me, and it is a safeguard for you.”Philippians 3:1

“For this reason I have sent to you Timothy, who is my beloved and faithful child in the Lord, and he will remind you of my ways which are in Christ, just as I teach everywhere in every church.” 1 Corinthians 4:17

Oh, that the Lord would give me grace for every moment and endurance that is lasting so that I might remind my children of the ways that are in Christ.

Because if I don’t, there is an ever-ready teacher waiting to direct them. One that will be happy to tell them again and again with great patience. And its message is much easier and more enticing, but it is a way that leads to death.

Dear friend, have you had those moments? My prayer for us both is that we would be diligent in the ministry the Lord has given us like Timothy to remind our children… and that like Paul it would be no trouble to us.

Just like the rain that falls steadily until the ground is saturated, may we daily, hourly, by the minute water the implanted seed of God's word in the hearts of our children as we trust him to bring forth the growth. Day after day after day until the Lord returns, may we be found faithful. May we be found tirelessly reminding our children {and ourselves} of Christ and his ways.

 

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Quote from Instructing A Child's Heart by Tedd and Margy Tripp